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This Book of Memories memorial website is designed to be a permanent tribute paying tribute to the life and memory of Jane Cavalcante. It allows family and friends a place to re-visit, interact with each other, share and enhance this tribute for future generations. We are both pleased and proud to provide the Book of Memories to the families of our community.

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Patrick Cavalcante

Mom these days are filled with deep sadness and an emptiness that will never be filled ever again. Losing you was truly the worst day of my life. I knew you as many things in my life. Mother, friend, confidant, caregiver, fighter, champion and the list goes on and on and no matter how many words I write here it can never touch the amount of special things you are to me and everyone else who knew you and your love. The words I write here for mostly for the living. Friends and family and people that know us and want to share how we feel and share special moments of our time with you. Only you know how each of us feels through our prayers and how we speak to you alone in our minds. For me my sadness grows very deep when I am on the road because we spent countless hours talking about anything and everything from food and relationships. We laughed and cried as I drove those thousands of miles and I looked forward to them EVERY time I drove and I still do. You taught me many things in my life and I know I wasnt the best son and I've made my mistakes along the way and hurt people I love but you always taught me that there is always a chance to make my life better and move beyond my sins and faults and live a better life for myself and those I meet in my own journey. My relationship with Jesus isn't very strong but ive never lost faith and I know one day as you wished I will learn to grow that relationship so that one day I can know the glory of the lord as you do now my dear mother. You ruined my sandwiches as a boy. Digging your fingers in and leaving deep finger marks in the bread haha i hated that so much and i complained about it and you would give me a hard time about it. It was a sandwich made with love.. only a mom could do that to a perfect good sandwich haha but it was made with love. You introduced me to a joy of food that we have shared since I was a small boy. I still remember the smell of the salt air and sounds of the waves and the games of the boardwalk in Seaside heights. You wanted your treat and took me with you to the fresh squeezed lemonade stand by the miniature golf place with that huge guy holding the golf club Next to it was the raw clam bar and you got me to eat raw clams for the first time and we shared a lemonade and it may seem silly to some reading it but it was something no one else would enjoy with you.. Something that bonded us at a young age and that love of food ive learned to pass on to my loved one and I try my best to share new foods with anyone I can. We also shared a love for mussels and even before you left us you called me your "mussel buddy". I love you so much and i miss you more than these words. I made promises to you and I will continue to keep them and be the best person that I can be. Your lessons and words have changed me for the better in my life and I will always and forever keep you close to my heart and give to others what you have given me. Thank you for being my mother and loving me and always believing in me even in my darkest days. May god bless and keep you at his side for all eternity until I can meet you again one day dear mother.
Monday July 27, 2020 at 10:57 am
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