Condolence: Oh Aunt Joan! Your son/my cousin Tom sent a card this past Dec. informing me. I had no idea. I lost my husband at Thanksgiving & could not deal with this. Finally could today. Next to Kitty, you were my fave! Sorry Dot, Mary Jane & Betty! I loved you all but proximity played a key. Aunt Joan you were my networker in this beautiful, beautiful family. Thank you for making sure I was kept in the loop. It's gotta be beautiful up there! Xoxo Valerie